33 family members at my house. Good times.
Thursday, December 5, 2013
Last night after I finished writing my blog post, I found these three pictures waiting for me in my inbox, straight from New York. Deviled eggs (with shrimp on top, of course), Pork chop (with quail egg on top, of course), and German-Chocolate Cake (with coconut whipped cream on top, of course). Despite the fantastically poor picture quality (I think that all that cholesterol was fogging the camera lens), my carrots were not quite satisfying after seeing these.
In the email with the picture of the cake, Chad mentioned he was wrapping up dinner and would call me when he got back to his hotel.
I waited until 10, and then as I was drifting off to sleep shortly thereafter, Chad called. The city noise bustled across the line with his frustration as he explained that he had been trying to hail a cab for the last half hour. A huge section of the street was barricaded for the lighting of THE Christmas Tree and it was crazy everywhere. “Man, poor guy,” I thought, as I lay in my cozy bed and drifted off to sleep immediately after.
I have never been to New York and all my New York education is based solely on Chad’s two trips there (crappy pictures, lots of work), Hey Natalie Jean (fantastic pictures, fantastic style), and You’ve Got Mail (pencil bouquets, Christmas sing-a-longs, and bend in the flower garden at Riverside Park).
Oh, and let’s not forget 30 Rock. My absolute favorite New York clip from 30 Rock:
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
This morning started off rough. Gabe stayed home from school sick (read: very tired and ultimately, very bored). Everyone was slow to get going and when our carpool van showed up, Oliver did not have his backpack on yet. When I went to get it, I found that it was still in the van from the previous day, and then discovered that he had unfinished homework inside (rows and rows of Chinese characters to write). I quickly wrote the teacher a note saying he would bring his homework tomorrow (which I have never done) and sent the freaking-out kid out the door.
The kindergarten adjustment has been a tough one for my guy and he is reacting in the same manner than he has reacted to every big adjustment in his life: waking up over and over again at night, lots of emotions spilling over, heels dug in with all his might and needing my constant love and affection without knowing how to show that that is what he needs. I know him and I know he will get through this. I know his teacher and I know that when Colin had her he cried every single night about not wanting to go to school the next day. She is a good teacher-no one can doubt her desire to help the children learn and grow-but she is tough. When Ollie’s folder came home today, it had a post-it note addressed to me, informing me that homework is supposed to be returned the next day and reminding me that she discussed that with me at the parent –teacher conference. Thanks.
Those kindergartener emotions didn’t just spill over tonight – they gushed over, drenching the whole household. I put the homework back away until tomorrow morning and took him to bed, where he was asleep before 7.
Carina just feel asleep so now it is my chance to munch on carrot sticks while I watch The Host and fold laundry.
Did I mention? Chad is in New York. He is eating at Bobby Flay’s restaurant as I type this. Oh, and he just sent me this picture:
Monday, December 2, 2013
November 24, 2013
Gabriel Robert Coleman
Fort Mill Ward of the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints,
Charlotte, North Carolina
Conducting: Brother Boyd Rogers
Pianist: Sister Kelly Johnson
Music Leader: Sister Deann Ballard
Welcome: Brother Boyd Rogers
Opening Song: Choose the Right #239
Opening Prayer: Sister Ashley Wright
Talk on Baptism: Brother Robert Jeppson Jr.
Baptismal Ordinance: Brother Chad Coleman
Witnesses: Brother Seth Morris, and
Brother Roy Wright,
Special Musical Numbers: Colin Coleman, “How Firm a Foundation,”
Sister Kelly Johnson, “Jesus Once Was a Little Child”, Cousins, Aunts and Uncles,” A Child’s Prayer”
Talk on Holy Ghost: Sister Katie Coleman
Confirmation: Brother Robert Jeppson Sr.
Primary Welcome: Sister Connie Simms
Bishopric Welcome: Bishop Chuck Johnson
Closing Song: If The Savior Stood Beside Me
Closing Prayer: Sister Lindsey Morris
Please join us for a picture and refreshments after the service.
For more information about baptism in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, click here.
Sunday, November 3, 2013
It is official. Soccer is over. All three boys played this season, and with how it worked out, we had soccer practice every single night of the week. Yes, even Fridays. Chad took them to practice, and I did bedtime with Carina and whoever was at home each night. We almost always managed to have dinner together, but it was always punctuated with pleas to find cleats and balls and hurry to the field. Saturdays meant three soccer games, sometimes spread out through the day, sometimes standing between two fields so we could watch two games at once.
I love soccer for so many reasons. I watched Gabe play this year and I could see that it has done so much for him. Do you remember when he first started? Our shy and unsure boy was now quick, strong, and so confident. All of my lectures about working hard and seeing results could never amount to that lesson that he learned for himself, and the self esteem that he obtained for himself – not through praise or trophies, but trying and seeing. We got an email from the soccer commissioner yesterday letting us know that Gabe was chosen by his coach to be on the all-star team – one of two kids from each team. He has come so far. We quickly and happily turned it down because practices are Sundays and we are done.
For everything that I love about soccer, this is the biggest problem I have with it: It is good way for our family to spend our time, but is there something better? Probably. It has been a time thief, and when it comes down to it, we have not had a lot of family time the last two months. Our scripture study, our family prayers, our family home evenings, and just our family fun have suffered. Now, if we were more organized, we might have managed all of those things and soccer, but it just didn’t happen as much as it should have. There really are only so many hours in a day and school and homework already take up a lot of that.
Not only that, but I am getting yelled at every day, eyes are rolling at every suggestion I make, and the loving brothers have not been so loving. Can I blame all of that on the lack of family time? I don’t know, but I do know it hasn’t helped.
This is the part of parenting that I never realized would be so hard. Small decisions that can seem positive and are positive in many ways, but can have major affects. How we spend our time, how we spend our money, where we place our priorities. The decisions are complex and what may be the right decision at one point for our family might not be the best decision at another time. Or a good decision for one child might not be the best decision for the another, no matter how much we try to make everything “fair.”
It makes me very grateful to be in this with a husband who is so involved, and with our Heavenly Father, whose perspective is so much broader than ours.
Thursday, October 31, 2013
The night before Halloween we carved pumpkins. Colin did his COMPLETELY by himself. Pretty impressive, right? The other three….let’s just say my hand was cramped by the end of the evening.
Halloween evening. I had to include a couple of different group pictures because Ollie’s poses crack me up.
No, Chad is not saying “Call me” and no, his swimsuit is not partially open in front. Awkwaaaaard.
OH MY GOODNESS do I have the cutest kids on the planet?! Seriously, these pictures make me so happy. A word on Carina’s costume – I bought it at Walmart for a couple of bucks four or five years ago after Halloween, long before I had a baby girl. I didn’t have any great ideas for her when I happened to pull it out and let her try it on. After that, there was no going back. She was just so adorable in this costume – my dad could not get over it. Every time he saw it he would start laughing. We got the hat on Amazon – the tiara part lit up and flashed. Just what every little princess cowgirl needs. Most of Ollie’s sheriff costume was one I made for Colin 7 (!) years ago. We just bought the hat. Gabe’s Quidditch uniform was one Colin wore a couple of years ago. And Colin’s was just an old uniform that we added zombie blood and makeup to. He was pretty thrilled by it, but his cousin Leslie was not.
We went trick or treating that night with my sister Lindsey, her husband Seth, and their girls Leslie, Mayan and Lily. We all had a great time and it wasn’t cold at all. Carina was pretty darn excited and was almost always the first kid to each door. We brought a stroller and she was too happy to use it most of the time. The boys were exhausted because earlier that day they had a fun-run at their school were all three of them ran the maximum number of laps –36, which equaled about 2 1/2 miles!! We didn’t stay out long, but they still got a fair amount of candy. When we came home, Ollie and Gabe wanted to go out longer, so they went out with Chad. We finished it of with a little clip of Treehouse of Horrors, and Carina took foreeeever to fall asleep that night.